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What is selling?

                   
     
 
-- Rings of mutual commitment --
 
         
If we leave out "all else", what is selling about? If selling comes down to only one thing, what is it that remains as the single most important element?
 
Asking this question is a healthy exercise in that we become aware of what it is we're really trying to accomplish. A lot of different answers might come up; the essence of selling is... "problem solving, asking questions, satisfying needs, perseverance, process..." All these are good, but these and many more are still only secondary.

One way to make the paramount and ultimate focus stand out clearly could be by asking: What is the purpose of selling? Why are we doing what we do? The purpose of selling and the heart of the matter in one word is COMMITMENT. To be precise; reaching a mutually desired and binding commitment.

Thus, sales training should, if done well, ultimately only focus on how this objective can be achieved. Usually I'm quite flexible when it comes to discussing whatever there is to learn, but in this area I'm confident and fixed. Sales models, strategies, skills and all else - at the end of the day - are only tools and procedures to help build the commitment. (Notice I did not say "get the commitment". A commitment is an experience, a feeling, a determination and a risk that we share.)

That's why it's so important to understand that the most solid commitments are "mutual and emotional". The only path to such commitments is through shared feelings. Shared feelings are an exchange of energy. Here's yet another reason why the realization of how influence is energy is so crucial!

 
 

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"An increase in influence is the one ingredient that influences life most...

...everyone wants more influence for varying reasons. They just don't know it yet.

(E. Vidar Top)

 
 
Someone once said to me: "There is no such thing as the perfect sale." I disagree. I very much disagree!

It reminds me of a conversation I had a long time ago. One of my CEO's said to me: "If the customer happily signed the contract then you've done your job. You exceeded your budget - you should be happy." But I wasn't.

On these pages I'll make it my mission to tell you what kind of sale does make me happy. I also invite you to help me get that insight - how selling should be - by telling me what you think.

Thank you for helping out ;-)

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